I’m not that familiar with most of the pre-Reagan American presidents and even less with their respective wives, but Eleanor Roosevelt was someone who had piqued my curiosity, years ago, as a teenager. I read a terrific book by Gloria Steinem, called a Book of Self Esteem and she made a comparison between Eleanor Roosevelt and Margaret Mead. Both women were highly intelligent and successful, but not exactly known for their conventional beauty. As Steinem showed, Mead couldn’t have cared less, while Roosevelt, when asked by an interviewer, whether she had any regrets looking back on her life said: “Just one. I wish I had been prettier.” This struck me as incredibly sad and touched me because it was so frank. I also wondered, what kind of life she thinks she’d have had if she had been prettier. After all, she was married to one of the most popular US presidents. When I came across Amy Bloom’s latest novel White Houses and saw it was about her relationship with Lorena Hickock, I remembered the Steinem book and picked it up. I wasn’t surprised to find out that Eleanor Roosevelt’s looks were also an important topic in this novel.
Of course, White Houses, is a novel, not a nonfiction book, so we have to assume Bloom took some liberties, nonetheless it was fascinating for many reasons. I had an idea of president Roosevelt, like many do, and while I still believe he was one of the better presidents, I don’t think he was that good a man. At least not, judging by this novel. Not only was he a philanderer but quite cruel to his mistresses. When they had served their purpose, he dropped them like a hot potato. But this is only a tiny part of what this book is about.
He was the greatest president of my life-time and he was a son of a bitch every day. His charm and cheer blinded you, made you deaf to your own thoughts, until all you could do was nod and smile, while the frost came down, killing you were you stood. He broke hearts and ambitions across his knee like bits of kindling and then he dusted off his hands and said, Who’s for cocktails? If Missy’s stroke hadn’t killed her, Franklin’s cold heart would have.
White Houses is told by Lorena Hickock, a journalist and writer who seems to have had a love affair with Eleanor Roosevelt. Quite a passionate affair, as it seems. They were drawn to each other physically, emotionally, and intellectually.
While she may not have been a great beauty, Eleanor was very attentive and caring, which endeared her to people.
We love the attentiveness of powerful people, because it’s such a pleasant, gratifying surprise, but Eleanor was not a grand light shining briefly on the lucky little people. She reached for the soul of everyone who spoke to her, every day. She bowed her head towards yours, as if there was nothing but the time and necessary space for two people to briefly love each other.
For many years, Hickock lived with the Roosevelts at the White House. Just like Eleanor accepted her husbands affairs, he seems to have accepted that his wife had hers.
We learn a lot about Lorena Hickock who came from a dirt poor family, was abused by her father and later, during the depression, abandoned. It’s remarkable that she was able, in spite of her hardships, to get a good education and become one of the first female journalists who covered important cases, like that of the Lindbergh baby.
Eleanor came from a totally different background but there’s still a lot of tragedy there. Even though she had six children, she was only really attached to one and he died shortly after his birth. The other kids were brought up by Franklin’s mother, the bossy clan matriarch with whom Eleanor didn’t get along too well. It seems to have been clear for everyone that motherhood was never Eleanor’s calling. And she hated having sex with her husband. It’s sad to think that she still had to go through so many pregnancies.
Since they were public figures, it’s easy to imagine how difficult the relationship between Lorena and Eleanor was. Maybe it was because of that or because of other reasons, but they slowly drifted apart. The book begins right after Franklin D. Roosevelt’s death and then moves back and forth in time. The short period after her husband’s death, marks also the end of the love story between Eleanor and Lorena. Why? We don’t know.
White Houses is a elegantly written novel. It’s fascinating and has some wonderful scenes that I enjoyed a lot. The relationship between the women is very affectionate.
We drove to a cabin overlooking the ocean at dusk and unpacked before dark. We shared a brandy and the last of the pretzels and stood in our nightclothes on the little porch, the big quilt around us. The mottled, bright white moon pulled the tide like a silver rug, onto the dark pebbled beach. It should have been a starry sky, but it was deep indigo, like the sea below, with nothing in it but the one North Star.
What I found very well done was the way Bloom described the White House. It is, after all, not only a famous house, but a place where a family, their friends, and entourage live, in other words, it is someone’s home. And that aspect of home, is well captured.
While the novel had many interesting elements, I was a little disappointed. I was left with too many questions and felt I would have done better to pick up a biography. But maybe that’s unfair, as I didn’t regret reading it. Both women are so fascinating and the book manages to show what a complex person the president was.
They loved him. History should show him to be a great man, a great leader, a silver-tongued con man and a devil with women, but if it doesn’t show that they adored him, it’s not telling the truth.
And it does its title justice. It evokes both sides of the White House – the public place and the home of a family.
14 thoughts on “Amy Bloom: White Houses (2018)”
I’ve read so many positive reviews of this, I’m really keen to read it. I know absolutely nothing about Lorena Hickock, I suppose with such complex characters there will always be unanswered questions but this does sound excellent.
I’d love to know what you think of it. I think, I went into it a little underprepared. Obviously, when you don’t know much, with a topic like this, you end up wondering all the time what is truth and what is fiction. They are both fascinating women and I’d gladly read a biography of either one of them.
Eleanor Rosevelt was a fascinating and admirable person. She had a major historical impact. She is well worth knowing about. This sounds interesting. I wonder what happened between her and Lorena. With that , I am always somewhat uncomfortable when authors turn history into novels, even when well researched. I need to read a dedicated biography. I would want to do that before giving this a try.
Brian, yes, you’re right. I just wrote this to Mme Bibi. I was not enough prepared. At least a brief bio would have been useful beforehand but I’m glad she introduced me to these women. Eleanor Roosevelt sounds amazing. Just, upright. Very admirable.
Fictional treatments of real people and their lives are not my usual thing, but this sounds both interesting and nicely done. I know very little about Eleanor Roosevelt as an individual, but she seems to have had a fascinating life – that affair sounds rather racy for its day!!
I actually like fictional accounts of famous people. More than other types of historical novels.
I’d say, Eleanor Roosevelt is well worth exploring. The book touches on many things and she was very forward thinking.
It’s surprising, she got away with the affair. 🙂 It seems like there were others.
I’m very keen to read this – it sounds so wonderful.
I hope you do. I’d love to know what you think of it.
It had so many wonderful passages.
This book sounds fascinating! I haven’t heard of Lorena Hickock before. I didn’t know that she and Eleanor Roosevelt were close. I didn’t know that Franklin Roosevelt had affairs. What is with American Presidents and affairs? I thought it was a more recent phenomenon, but it seems to be a long tradition from what this book says. This book looks quite fascinating. I would love to read it. Adding it to my TBR. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
It is very fascinating. I was astonished by so many things. Like you, I had no idea of Roosevelt’s affairs. It does not seem to be a new development. Lorena Hickock and Eleanor were both such fascinating women. I’d love to know what you think of it.
Looking forward to reading it soon, Caroline. So exciting!
Oh great. Can’t wait to see what you think of it.
I watched a documentary on FDR recently and was surprised that he was such a philanderer. The man had polio and was in a wheelchair with leg braces. This was hidden from the public as he was never photographed in the wheelchair. It sounded like Eleanor had an unhappy home life, but she did so much for the downtrodden.
I’m leery of books like this too, but this sounds like a good one.
It is really good.
I had no idea he was a philanderer but knew about the wheelchair. In WWII movies, he’s always in the wheelchair. I didn’t know they didn’t show that at the time. Apparently, it’s not even sure anymore he had Polio. It could have been some other diseases.
Eleanor really did think of others first, it seems.